Rediscover your strength and identity, within your marriage and beyond
Rediscover your strength and identity, within your marriage and beyond
Coaching/Mentorship
Healing after betrayal can feel overwhelming, exhausting, and isolating. Through Coaching and Mentorship, I walk alongside you with encouragement, grace, and understanding, creating a safe space to explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences.
Together, we’ll uncover patterns, recognize triggers, and identify hurdles that have been holding you back, while discovering the clarity, strength, and direction that coaching provides. This is a relational, supportive process designed to help you move forward with hope, confidence, and renewed purpose.
About
About Healing Hope
Healing Hope was created as a safe and supportive space for married women at any stage of their journey — whether navigating betrayal, a spouse’s infidelity, a new marriage, or seeking clarity and purpose beyond their current circumstances. It is designed for women who are ready to explore what is most valuable to them, understand and reclaim their identity, recognize and process their emotions, and build a strong foundation for their lives.
Grounded in Christian principles, Healing Hope provides a space to be real, reflect, and apply practical tools that support personal growth, clarity, and restoration. This is a place where your journey is honored, your story is valued, and your next steps toward wholeness are supported.
About the Coach/Mentor
Hi, I’m Tami Tinajero, a certified coach through the International Coaching Federation, a mentor for women who have been betrayed, and someone who has walked her own journey from early life trauma to healing and transformation. I know firsthand that restoration is not only possible, but deeply transformative.
My husband and I have been married for 31 years and have raised three children, two sons and a daughter. Together, we own a business that creates online professional development for teachers and leadership training for principals and superintendents.
When I describe myself, I often think of Rich Mullins’ song Creed, where he sings, “I believe what I believe is what makes me what I am… It is the very truth of God and not the invention of any man.” That lyric captures my heart and faith.
I am dedicated to creating a supportive space for those seeking to overcome their struggles. My deepest passion is walking alongside women who have been betrayed by a sexually broken spouse and those navigating their marriage journey. I have served as a facilitator with Meg Wilson’s organization, Hope After Betrayal (Hopeafterbetrayal.com), for over eight years, and my husband has facilitated SA El Paso (Sexaholics Anonymous El Paso) for more than a decade. Together and individually, we seek to live out Isaiah 61.
Testimonials
“Healing Hope allowed me to breathe for what felt like the first time. I was better able to understand the addiction cycle of pornography and what it means to truly let go of my pain. There are so many things I have learned through Healing Hope.”
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"My recommendation for Mrs.Tinajero’s (Tami's) wisdom will never be enough to express my gratitude for her abilities, gifts, and exceptional skills to encourage and inspire me in one of the most difficult times in my life. Her ability to truly listen, understand, and guide without judgment is exceptional. I have no doubt that any formal or informal meeting/encounter with Tami will be purposeful, empowering, and tailored specifically to one's goals and challenges. She has the most amazing ability to balance empathy and accountability in her council. She helped me build clarity and confidence to help me create lasting change. "
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"When I first found out about my husband’s addiction, I fell into a deep depression and struggled to make sense of the situation. For the next three years, I lived my life pretending everything was going to be fine, but I was slowly falling back into the deep pit again, until a mutual friend introduced me to Tami. She met with me, and I immediately felt she cared and wanted healing for me. We are going through a book together, and each week or so, I learn so much and am already noticing myself start to heal. But really, it isn’t just the book, it’s her personal experience that reassures me that I can take one day at a time and with God I will come out stronger in the end."
*Testimonies are anonymous